1)Carve out time together
*The first step to creating some relationship goals is to carve out a time that works for both of you. It is important to have life goals so why not have relationship goals? Talk with each other and choose a time that works for both of you. Make sure the time is good for both of you and that you can both be fully alert and not distracted.
2) Plan together
*Now it’s time to plan. You are together so why not plan together? It important to make solid goals that reflect both of your interests. In order to do that you will have to talk, compromise and do it together. It would make no sense to plan it one sided and expect the other to just go with the flow. However, you may have that type of relationship but it would be wise to still do it together.
3) Execute together
*Now it’s time to execute. This last and final step is imperative or the planning is worthless. You have to execute. Execution takes teamwork, accountability and hard work. If your in the right relationship then executing won’t necessarily be easy but it will definitely worth it.
Bonus step: Here is a bonus step. After you’ve picked a time, planned and spent some time executing, why not reflect on your progress and improve your plan?